Over the years, I have come to accept that one the best ways forward is to keep things simple.
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Category Archives: LEADERSHIP
A warning unheeded is a disaster invited
Words reveal the soul
In unmetered words, wickedness abounds…
In selfish words, hidden character emerges…
In careless words, the true heart is revealed…
For from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks or spews forth. Words are a powerful refelction of our souls. You can moderate them for a while. But when push comes to shove, your truth will come out.
With this awareness, the assumption that you are a leader might be misplaced. Could you be abusing the rare leadership opportunity accorded to you? For before disaster overtakes them, the heart of a haughty person is filled with self-importance. However, it is critical to note that humility comes before honor.
Courage is going back to be molded and matured for service.
Maturity is the humility to understand and practice service.
Legacy is the quality of the other leaders and followers you help build.
For life is fleeting and corrupt gain like a flower that produces no seed. For a man’s stomach will be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; He will be satisfied with the consequence of his words.
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On Mission!
Get your life and work back on track
Transitions can be amazingly satisfying or remarkably murky to navigate. As we build our coaching practice, my wife and I oscillate through a range of experiences and emotions.
There are times we feel like soaring eagles… with beautiful vistas as far as the eye can see. Our calendars are comfortably full with client engagements. The challenge comes during the in-between periods when there is a lull in our work. If not checked, these depressed moments can easily unravel our plans.
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How committed are you?
Why simple goals just make sense!
Since 2018, my personal and professional life is committed to deliberate goal-setting. Before that, I would create a detailed matrix that quickly overwhelmed me due to its complexity.
The overwhelm became apparent at the end of every year. About half of my intended activities were not done! In trying to look smart, I had over-complicated things for myself.
That is why I decided to shift to a one-page goal template in 2018. I narrowed my goals down to four critical categories: Spiritual, Work, Health and Community. In total, I am committed to a maximum of twenty goals for the year.
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Chance encounters?
Connecting is a choice!
In our ‘rush’ to live, an effort to pause and reflect goes out of the window. In our breathless existence, we often miss out on our essence of being human.
I did not feel like being anywhere near my bike that day. My legs felt stiff and a lethargic haze hang over me. Then, a small voice, from deep within said, “Just go, even if for a short ride. You will still chip away at your weekly goal.”
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Want to build more resilience?
Stay agile with these 6 practical habits
One opportunity the COVID-19 pandemic has granted me is a heightened urgency to for deep reflection. I deliberately find time and space to introspect on life and work in a more meaningful manner.
Out of this introspection, the word ‘resilience’ has consistently popped up. I took this as a sign to codify how my resilience look like for me. Resilience is a measure of how much I want something and how much I am willing, and able, to overcome obstacles to get to it.
Psychology Today describes it this way: “Resilience is that ineffable quality that allows some people to be knocked down by life and come back stronger than ever. Rather than letting failure overcome them and drain their resolve, they find a way to rise from the ashes.”
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Coaches need coaching too!
Questions lead to deeper meaning
I contemplated on this during a conversation with myself on the day the International Coaching Week 2021 kicked off. With a deep focus on supporting my coaching clients, it can be easy to forget that coaching works for me too!
Cycling has become my channel to care for my mental, spiritual and physical health. Occasionally, my body becomes ‘non-compliant’ as lethargy births lame excuses of how I can ride another day. It does not take much to slide back into my lowest form. A place where laziness wafts in like the cold fingers of a cold night; where I just exist.
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The masks we wear
Dealing with uncomfortable situations
“You look familiar!” In 2020, this became the silent message I read in people’s eyes when I was out and about. Considering the look in their eyes, I seemed to convey a similar message back to them. Then it clicked!
Since the COVID-19 broad-sided us, facial masks took over our faces. Our smiles are obscured, voices muffled and frowns protected. I had to add more meaning to words to verbalize what my facial expressions couldn’t communicate.
As I strive to protect myself from the deadly virus, this experience has helped me uncover another virus affecting me.
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Heart to mind
Mind the gap!
The proving ground
Trudged the wilderness, measured by life
If only I had known! It is difficult to admit it. But this fleeting thought crosses my mind every so often.
Getting an idea off the ground is a daunting task. Especially a business idea. Starting something as you emerge from the dark is even harder. This is the summary of my last five years. All I had was an urge to help transform lives and a will to make it work. No money, no connections and ignorant of the market (there, I said it).
Only now is my hike through the wilderness beginning to make sense. Many initiatives have failed. But they have helped to refine my focus on what matters most. Where I sought perfection before stepping out, I now start scrappy with a small test-group to probe my hypothesis. Depending on the results, I shelve the idea or progress it to the next level. In both instances, I look out for lessons and quickly learn from them.
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